Dependent Personality Disorder

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Dependent Personality disorder is defined by a need to be taken care of. Those with the disorder display dependent and submissive behaviour patterns, wanting others to make their decisions for them. Even the simplest everyday decisions seem daunting, and individuals seek constant reassurance and advice from others. Criticism and disapproval easily hurts those with the disorder and they usually bend over backwards to cater for the needs of others, clinging to them for comfort.

Individuals with this disorder fear rejection and lack self-confidence, they also fear separation and constantly try to cope with their anxiety of abandonment. Being alones leaves the sufferer feeling helpless and uncomfortable. Those with Dependent Personality Disorder typically jump from one relationship to another, often remaining in abusive relationships. Being with anyone is considered better than being alone. When a relationship ends, the individual is devastated.

Individuals rarely initiate projects or activities on their own, and though they have ambition, imagination and energy, are often held back by their lack of self-confidence. Not believing in their own judgement and abilities, they leave it up to others to make the decisions. People with Dependent Personality Disorder are usually over-sensitive and feel depressed and helpless. The individual does not feel fully alive being on their own.

Symptoms:

Difficulty making everyday decisions

Need for excessive reassurance and advice

Difficulty expressing disagreement

Avoid being alone

Avoid responsibility

Easily hurt by criticism

Fears abandonment

Helplessness

Difficulty initiating projects

Need to please others

Constantly needs to be in a relationship

Causes:

The cause of this disorder is still unknown. However, it usually appears in early adulthood. As with all personality disorders, a variety of factors are thought to contribute to the development of the disorder.

Treatment:

There is no specific treatment for this disorder, however psychotherapy is usually the choice of treatment for those suffering with Dependent Personality Disorder. Individuals are likely to seek treatment when complications in their life become too much for them to handle. Medications should only be prescribed for specific problems.

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